TIM ROGERS, MA, LMFT
2 min readOct 4, 2021

The Pro’s Con

ON PROCRASTINATION …wait

What if

who find ourselves putting off what we want and have decided ourselves, we need an experience of being successful .

We BELIEVE that success must come from the thing we having such hard time starting, so we’re half right.

We need the successful experience, it it isn’t from what we’re trying to accomplish, that isn’t possible. However, the success we need to experience is from the ones we’ve minimized along the way toward procrastinating.

If we look back at our actual successful experiences, times we’ve achieved, consider how we’ve described them. “Baby steps” “sort of a win” “a small win”

If we take out the qualifiers , we have real examples of us tolerating our own(ed) success. They aren’t small, or baby or sort of, they are PROOF that we CAN tolerate success and we don’t have to be afraid of it, because we know it, we’ve experienced it.

What 3 career titles did you want to have when you were a kid dreaming of being a grown up? There is a theme to those jobs and that theme is where your passion lies and the skill set necessary isn’t only the life we’ve been living and learning, but the way in which we’ve approached, considered, wanted, hoped to be able to do it but “was just a dream or too hard or side hobby. “ when really it’s been trying to tell us the entire time, but we must become conscious for it to be a possibly and we cannot become conscience without help/support/ mentoring.

We cannot wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.

TIM ROGERS, MA, LMFT

CA (MFT101500) & AZ (MFT15993) Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Effective Treatment for ALL PEOPLE, of color, LGBTQIA+, adults & modern families!